If something is bothering you emotionally it can feel difficult to know what to do about it. Just making the first step to finding a counsellor can be a big step towards feeling better.

 

In counselling, you are encouraged to explore your thoughts and feelings in a confidential and supportive space. You might have a strong sense of what is troubling you, or you might not feel so clear – either way we gently look at what is going on for you, and often this can give you a new perspective and greater insight into whatever is causing you distress. 

"Sarah is incredibly warm and would make anyone feel at ease and able to pour out their thoughts and fears. I did just that and after a couple of sessions began to see my thoughts and feelings in some perspective.  Even see the funnier side of my darker moments." (Sophie, Edinburgh)

Counselling is completely confidential and I work with people in many different situations, including:

 

Counselling for infertility:

If you are struggling to conceive or remain pregnant, it can be a very isolating experience for a variety of reasons. Some people feel as though they have ‘failed’ in some way, and others don’t want to tell people in case they ‘get left behind.’ Finding a confidential space to talk about how you’re really feeling, without worrying about judgement, can help support you.

Counselling in Pregnancy:

Many women report feeling low or anxious during pregnancy, but think that this is due to hormonal changes or tiredness. How you feel during your pregnancy can affect both you and your baby, and often counselling helps people realise where these feelings come from.

Being anxious or depressed during pregnancy is more common than we think, and getting help at this stage is a great way to start your relationship with your unborn child, as it can help change patterns of thinking that you didn’t even realise were there.

Counselling after Birth:

At least 1 in 10 women will have postnatal depression or anxiety after having a baby (although the figure is possibly much higher), and it doesn’t always start until a several months after the baby is born. If you find you are struggling, whether or not you have a diagnosis of postnatal depression or anxiety, having a supportive space to talk about your feelings can ‘normalise’ your experience and help you realise what might be preventing you from enjoying this stage. 

Postnatal anxiety can be harder to notice than postnatal depression, because it's not as talked about. If you're struggling as a mother but not sure you have depression, it might help to hear some of Sarah's thoughts on Radio 4, talking with Jenni Murray about postnatal anxiety.

Counselling for Birth Trauma:

If you find yourself traumatised by the birth of your child (even if it seemed ‘normal’) counselling can help you move on rather than being ‘stuck’ with the feelings. If you are still having flashbacks or find that certain things trigger extreme anxiety, this is not normal and can be resolved.

Counselling before getting pregnant:

Some people find that they are scared of getting pregnant (called Tokophobia). This can happen to first time parents, or after struggling with a previous birth.  If you would like some support with this, we can explore where these feelings come from, what that means for you, and you can make your decision with greater insight into what you want.

Counselling before returning to work:

It can be hard to balance lots of competing pressures as a parent,  and this can be especially true when returning to work. Talking to someone about your feelings can help you make more sense of them and feel more peace in the decision that you make.

Counselling due to a life event such as bereavement, loss of a job, or anything else:

Life doesn’t stop when you’re pregnant or have a baby, but it can be even harder to cope with big losses when you are adjusting to the life event of having a baby. Many people don’t have time to process the loss of a loved one whilst they are pregnant, and the emotions can start to affect them after the baby is born. Or life events such as losing a job or moving house can also take their toll. Expecting yourself to cope can sometimes be too much and counselling can give you that extra bit of support to process what has gone on for you.

Some people prefer to have a fixed number of sessions (6-10) to focus on one specific issue that is bothering them, whereas for some people they want more time to explore issues. Sessions last about an hour, normally on a weekly basis, as agreed between us.

"I have just completed 8 sessions with Sarah, and I can honestly say that when I think back to how poorly I was a few weeks ago compared to how I feel now, I am like a different person." (Kirsty, Edinburgh)

Initial consultations cost £50 for 1hr, and after that, sessions cost £60 for 1hr. I am able to accept payment through some health insurance providers (Axa) - please chat with me if you would like to do that. Sessions happen in my welcoming room here or via Zoom, a secure video meeting service.

Please get in contact for more information.